I wasn't talking about how either of them looks.
Make sure to have the sound on, especially when you watch the first one. It's like fingernails on a blackboard.
That sounds like something that a fat guy would say, and you don't look fat.Looks usually aren't the main thing. Most women pick the successful loyal man over the "I care too much about how tanned my skin is and my 6 pack" guy. Personality goes a long way as well.
It is normal. I suggest you take your own advice.Different nationalities give a different ear to voices. I personally find many Asian women's voices harsh and gutteral with the way they form sounds and extend certain letters, but I'm sure Asian men either find it attractive or perceive it as perfectly normal.
Learn some tolerance.